Collars

This is a topic that I have in my mind for quite a while now... and it's COLLARS. The fashion kind of collars. Like this one:

For like a year now, may fashionistas, bloggers and so on got completely mad about them. And, sincerely, I actually get the fascination. They are a nice accessorie to add, a nice alternative to a simple necklace. 6 months ago I wanted to get me one, too. But then it got me.

I'm kinda feminist and I was thinking about the simbolism behind the collars on the dresses. And after that I chose not to buy one. I don't think that a collar is a good thing for a woman. It's like we are going backwards with our freedom in a way. Back to the old ways, when all the dresses had collars that made everything seem so serious and kinda closed. It was forbiden to show legs, hands, sometimes even hair, and of corse a natural beautiful cleavage. The collar was just the cherry on top to make everything look sweet and proper. And this is the main reason why this topic bothers me.

Women achieved so many things in years and now with this kind of fashion we are just denying our freedom. Ok, I get the "fashion" aspect, I really do. But why should we bound ourselves again?

Let me know what you think.

I'm gone to Phillips Fashion Week here in Slovenija in Ljubljana, so the next post it's gonna be about that. Hope I'll se great creations and meet some new wanderful people!

Meanwhile, have a great time and be cool to yourself!

XOXO Urshiusz

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Long story short... I have exams. Oh yeah! So I'm not available to socialize. With anyone. Well, just with my cat BiBi. Because he lives with me.

Goodbye people. If I'm not back at the end of September, then wait a little bit more.
Thank you for your kindness and patience.

So long
And tnx for all the exams

xoxo Ursha

gone...

... for 4 days. In Florence. Yay. With great people. Double yay!

Au revoir *

urshiusz<3

WTF is "beauty" and when u're mature enough for it?

So, today was a good day.

I woke up, went to school, had lunch with friends, had some more classes, got home, went to work, went home and did some reading on the internet. Stuff like Facebook checking, blogs i follow and other stuff.

BUT! What really caught my attention was THIS .

Are people that insane?!

First read the article (it's not that long), and then continue with the reading of my post.

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... I guess you read the article.
So. I will repeat the sentence: "ARE PEOPLE REALLY THAT INSANE?!"

Well, some people might think that I care too much about others. Or that I don't have a life and I just have to bitch around about other peoples life. But this is just too much.
Let's say, hypothetically, that you have a kid right now. And you have enough money to make a star out of your kid. And all the right connections. Would you do it? I surely wouldn't. Why? Because even if you are the kids parent, you absolutely have no rights to destroy the kids childhood. Haven't we learn anything from the little film stars like Lindsay Lohan or the Home Alone kid? Just because we are that selfish and greedy and want more and more money, should we put the child's life at risk? I say NO.

You were a kid too. And you all can imagine how would it be if at the age of, let's say, 5 you just started to do commercials, films and other stuff. It's just not right. This whole "movie" world is breaking people. Is tearing them apart.

And about beauty. Beauty is all around you, is just everywhere. You just have to look close enough. It's not all about modelling, films, skinny, anorexia and stuff. It's about feeling the natural flow of beauty that embraced you from the first second you were born. It's the clear blue sky above, and the green grass with lots of flowers. You can see it in the animals around you and in many many other places.

Please, stop being so superficial. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

Just love yourself and embrace the love around you.


Lots of love and happy sunny days.

Urshiusz <3

Hair colour metamorphosis

Hello to everyone!

I've been absent in the past few weeks mainly because of uni and work, which is taking most of my day lately. But I'm managing on having more time for myself and I'm working on my organisational skills to achieve what I want in my day.

I was talking in one of the posts about how important my hair colour is for me and how it does reflect my mood and state of mind. This is still true. So I wanted to show u how this thing has changed in the years. I focused on putting just one pic of every hair change.

So, as u can see, I had my natural colour untill the parent's divorce happened, that's when I dyed my hair black coz I felt like this. After some time I was feeling better and I tried to turn red again, but it wasn't easy. In the end I just turned blonde coz I was never blonde before. Then I kinda felt good with myself so I turned into some dark chocolate thing. But then I had some problems again and just instantly decided to go into a sahara blonde phase. Then it was just abaut fringe-yes or fringe-no. Then, when my relationship finished, I turned to the Tabasco red dye and I felt better then ever, but the colour faded to quickly, so Tthen I dyed them into some more dark reddish and just left it there to fade. Now I have my natural brown colour, I just added some strange blonde highlights, butthey can't be seen on the last picture. I have the fringe on the side and I finally feel myself again after 7 years!

U can easily see my weight ups and downs too. Right now I'm working on loosing my weight coz I just don't feel right. Eventho I'm managing my weight quite well with clothes and so on, I don't feel like me. I was always slim, just a normal slim girl. Maybe with a bit of ass, but that's just my body structure. I'll never have a small ass. But, like I said, I'm working on getting in shape again :) ATM I'm trying to eat 4 or 5 meals per day and I'm using the blood group diet. Some years back it worked, so I guess it will work again and I hope I'll just eat regulary this way.

Well, that's all for today coz I'm finishing my coffee and then I'll get ready for work :)

Have a niiiiiice warm sunny days pl :D

Ursha <3

Carnival FTW!

Just wanted to tell u that I'm getting ready for the carnival in here (like a Halloween kind of thing, u can dress up, but the reason would be to kinda defeat winter and bring spring; I guess it works every year!) with the great surround of the film Inglorious Bassterd, which I raccomend to everyone. Especially if u like ironi and Tarantino ;) In about 30minutes I'll swich into some SpaceDjz or Dataminions. Just to keep up my spirit and have a personal pre-preparty :D

I'll show u what I'm gonna be as dressed up in the next few days ;)

Meanwhile, take care lovelies<3

Urshiusz

Study mode: ON

Me iz on da right.

Good luck to all exam-people!

Urshiusz*

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